Elopement Myths Debunked: Small Weddings, Big Moments

There’s something beautifully intimate and powerful about eloping - but it’s still one of the most misunderstood ways to get married.

For years, “elopement” was seen as a rushed, last-minute decision or something you did in secret without much thought. But not anymore. Elopements have evolved into meaningful, well-planned celebrations that focus on what matters most: love, connection, and the moment itself.

Here are some of the most common myths we hear about eloping and why they couldn’t be further from the truth.

Myth 1: Eloping Isn’t 'Real' or Special

Let’s start here. The idea that elopements are somehow “less than” a traditional wedding couldn’t be more wrong.

Elopements are often deeply emotional and intentional. They strip away the pressure, the performance, and the long guest lists and leave you with just the heart of the day: two people making a promise to each other.

We’ve seen couples laugh, cry, and celebrate in ways that are just as magical as any full-scale wedding.

Myth 2: You Have to Run Away to a Registry Office

Nope. Modern elopements can be anywhere - a private garden, a creekside ceremony, an intimate chapel, or even under the stars.

At Braeside, we offer midweek elopement packages for couples wanting a stunning, styled space without needing the big guest list. Think candles, music, photo ops, and a glass of bubbles - just with fewer people and more freedom.

Myth 3: You Can’t Include Family or Friends

Eloping doesn’t mean excluding the people you love. It just means keeping it small and intentional. Some couples choose to elope with just their partner and celebrant. Others bring a handful of their closest people.

You make the rules. Want your dog as the ring bearer? Go for it. Want your parents there to witness the moment? Absolutely.

Myth 4: Elopements Aren’t as Beautiful or Styled

Just because an elopement is smaller doesn’t mean it has to be plain. In fact, most couples who elope have more budget and flexibility to create a beautiful experience - whether it’s a lush floral backdrop, a styled dinner for two, or an unforgettable photo session.

Smaller doesn’t mean simpler. It just means you can focus your energy (and budget) on the things that truly matter to you.

Myth 5: It’s Not as Memorable as a Traditional Wedding

Some of the most emotional, memorable weddings we’ve hosted at Braeside have been elopements. There’s something incredibly personal about a small ceremony - it’s calm, intentional, and free from outside distractions.

You remember every word. Every look. Every laugh.

And just because it’s small doesn’t mean it’s forgettable. If anything, it becomes even more unforgettable.

Thinking About Eloping?

If you're drawn to the idea of a relaxed, meaningful celebration without the pressure of planning a big wedding, an elopement might be perfect for you.

Our midweek elopement packages (available Monday to Wednesday) are ideal for couples who want a beautiful, intimate day that still feels special. Email us to learn more or book a tour.

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